This is the shit you got to deal with my dude. Yes it is true.
The funny thing about getting to be an old fuck is that the shit sneaks up on you at times. Granted I’ve enjoyed the benefits of taking care of myself well enough so I don’t notice this shit that much fucking hell the struggle is real.
Straight every day all damn day.
Fuck feel good food. Try food that doesn’t fuck your shit up at night.
Find out your blood type and what you have to eat to keep your shit good.
Water. Drink it.
Juice fast once year. To clear out all the fucked up shit in your body already.
On the real if your not yet old fuck Do this shit before you hit forty before forty back slaps your ass on the way over the hill
In simple terms: Your behavior or the activities you do mirror back who you are and a pattern for how you think. Some behaviors patterns can be changed others are fixed. The deciding factor is you.
Examples:
Loud corny behavior
This beta bitch behavior pattern is seen in the leather, the fedora and the words that vibrate with arrogence, self importance and self delusion. He really does think people give a shit about I’m a cool asshole delusion. All he is a fucking beta bitch sniffing on his shitty philosophy or masturbating to his own intelligence. Is this fixable?! Maybe. He just has to have a come to Jesus moment where he realizes nobody gives a fuck what he thinks.
Some dudes don’t give a fuck. Other men choose what to give a fuck about and damn everything else. Confidence is knowing who you are and not giving a fuck if nobody else cares about it because they don’t. This is behavior that is expressed outwardly from inward self knowledge. Learned behavior.
At peace in his own world. Confident in his own skin. In the flow state my dude.
Habits breed behaviors and personality patterns mirror self indentity. Learn your strengths check your habits and limit your own bullshit from getting in the way of you winning in life.
I can remember it clearly. Waking up one day from my bed after a protecular weird vivid dream going into the dining room sitting down with my notebook and began writing my first fantasy.
I spent the entire day doing that as teenager. Food was brought to me. I went to the bathroom occasionally but the whole day I was just in that vibe to write. It was a Obession. Though I didn’t know it at the time and that was the only time I ever did that but I never lost that spellbound enchantment to the craft.
The only other people I could see have that thought process are people that grand Master chess players.
I’m not that big on the game but the focus and thought process of thinking ahead and analyzing strategy skills are amazing to me. The talent for being capable of being experienced at being focused on a single series of moves not made reminds me writing for me. The Obession of it is reminds me of my own Obession at times.
When I’m writing I am not just thinking about the next sentence but the ending and beginning. The characters have their motivations and I find myself careful in writing dialog that hopefully will fit them and not my own thoughts for their actions.
I think within reason Obession can be a positive thing when it is controlled or led in a right direction. Being Obessed with winning in life is a healthy thing. Being obsessed with not giving a fucking is a sure way to get your ass handed to you or the best way of not giving a fuck about the demands other people put on you.
Destiny is what you do from here to the grave. It’s a means to building a life. There is a profession and there is a purpose and meaning for things you do to achieve meaningful goals to you.
Or
It can be boring 9 to 5 for the rest of your life to pay for your apartment and family.
It’s choices. You have a choice or choices on what you will do with your natural and learned skills. What you will do and can do will end up being your destiny.
A subjective destiny to me is working at McDonald’s. You have dreams of making it big on YouTube with 9 subscribers no niche with a dream of retiring at thirty and spending the rest of your life banging hockers and riding motorcycles.
Just finished listening to the book and I have thoughts. I highly recommend the book for ages 10-40. Overall a good book and helpful in teaching basic financial discipline and budget mindset.
I got to this book late and some of the principles I have learned by experience or observations of highly effective productive people.
My favorite chapter is the luckiest man in babylon.
The jest of the book is parables of stories to illustrate how to grow, maintain and advance yourself in wealth.
The takeaways. I have two.
1.”Where the determination is the way can be found.”
It is not enough to desire to have shit or cash. You have to have a determination. A will of Iron that there is no other way but to push forward and defeat or win over the enemy before you. Debt. Procrastination. Lack of Motivation.
Only when you have a determination then can be open to seeing a way or solution to defeating overcoming the challenges of gaining wealth or fearing yourself from slave mindset or en debted slavery.
Every man has to make a determination on what type of man they are. A slave or a free man. What class do you fit in?
2. Luck is found or created when you learn to enjoy working and mastering a skill.
When you make working your friend lady luck comes looking for you. Opportunities come looking for you and wealth is a by product of a determination to use work as a means to rise a step above the rest.
The principles of wealth are old and simple. It isn’t at a dice roll or at a gambling table. It’s 40 hrs a week at the day job, four hours a day at the side hustle and two hours a day studying your craft and pushing yourself to get to the top so that you can get two weeks at the beach with your girl and not worry about whether or not the bills will get paid.
In short: Listen to people that know who you are because often times you’ll catch hints of when they’re talking bullshit. Listen to gut, your thoughts and what you want to do.
When your having a conversation about your life, your needs and your desires please listen to yourself when you talk. Your telling on yourself. What motivates you. What heightens your interests and makes you hyper awhere or happy. You already know your just not listening to yourself.
Listen to people that have your best interest at heart. Listen and pay attention to what they’re saying about you. It matters so don’t just listen to respond. Be present and listen for opportunities to grow, learn and consently be on the search to move forward.
If you want to be successful in life listen to someone successful in life.
Conversations in general are golden opportunities for you to mine out relationships and information to help you be successful in the game of life.
Your people, your tribe are real and honest people that don’t want to soft ball you the truth about how you are fucking up your life.
No I’m not joking. People ignore shit easy. People don’t listen when they get up in their feelings and recognize when someone has given them the truth about how it is.
No words really describe that feeling you get knowing your complaints are bullshit when your OG that been in the game long to show you, you ain’t shit. Your mouthing off about this ain’t fair, it’s impossible. OG’s just watching then he’s had enough of your shit and shows you what a fucking OG’s super power is experience, practice and fucking balls.
OG don’t say shit. His answer is to get that shit done like he’s done a hundred times before.
In short: positive psychology/philosophy and behavioral science mixed with tools to get you into (being) and (doing) and (having) what the fuck you want. Life Coaching is a progressive plan of execution to win.
The benefits of coaching are more into the training and tools that can be used to utilize in helping yourself achieve your goals. That’s the end result. How can you achieve succeeding in your goal and winning in life.
The formal answer: Be accountable to yourself and the decisions you make. Engineer your life concisely. Play for the win in life.
The informal answer: Stop fucking around and start setting your life in order to do what you know you want to do. Be honest with yourself.. what fucking excuses are you giving yourself because your either afraid or to lazy to plan and execute your own success?
What’s the big confusion?
Well…there is no real confusion only grifters and bullshit artists trying to put the game on you for some…
And no results. No forward progress. No plan of execution, no plan for success to win in the game. When your dealing with a non professional.
The mindset: The game of life is a long one, winning is the objective. Whatever goal your set on achieving it is through your own fault or effort that help you succeed for the win or fail.
You are the engineer of your own life. You understand and design it in a way to go where you want it. You can go along with the social society engineering or take control and concisely decide for yourself what the ride is going to be like. We already know the ending.
Yes. Life is a game. Yes. You can lose. But, what’s worse in life is purposefully losing. Getting in your own way or just not giving a fuck to pursue a prize you fixed your mind to.
Does it matter? It matters a hell of a lot to me because I know what losing is like and know what winning feels like. Losing and depression go hand in hand. The mindset behind “does it matter if I try?” Does it matter if I push myself a little harder give it everything I have is some bullshit.
“IT DOESN’T MATTER IF YOU WIN BY AN INCH OR A MILE. WINNING IS WINNING.’ @FASTFAMILY DOMINIC TORETTO
Do you know who losing matters most too? Your enemies with friendly masks and your internal doubts that spring up to get in the way of your rise and progress forward. Life is competitive and there is always a given moment your in the mud wrestling your way for a winning pin against another foe.
So fuck not trying. Fuck self doubts. Fuck depression and fuck anybody that gets in my way of the pursuit of the win. The opposition is real in life. I am not surprised when people attempt to get in my way. I am annoyed when events happen to block me but I am not surprised nor am I backing up.
I am pushing through and when I can I’ll enjoy the ride along the way. I will sleep win I am dead. I’m alive now so the struggle is on but am not to deterred because I’m on the move.
It’s a learning process of transforming yourself and taking hold of a burden of responsibility and accountability for your actions or the actions of others. It’s a clean up job when somebody else has fucked the pouch a man in his manhood has to come along and clean up the fucking shit.
Adulthood is doing what your suppose to do for yourself and you don’t get a medal for it because your only doing what your supposed to do. Paying your bills. Taking care of yourself. Showing up on time for your job. It is your reasonable service to yourself and society. Being an adult has got nothing to do with being a man or a woman. It is simple doing what is only reasonable to ask of an adult.
Manhood. It isn’t for the weak. It’s doing shit that you don’t want to do, you may not have to do but you do it because your the only one available to do it. Nobody gives a fuck that you did the job even when they asked or begged you to do it. They just knew you were the one to do it. It’s a thankless job. It isn’t a reasonable service. It’s a job only a Godsdamn man would do because the shit got to get done and he’s the huckleberry for any mother fucker asking for a volunteer.
I used to live my life on autopilot looking for chances for someone to give me a chance to get to be who I wanted to be. To get where I wanted to go. The day I started living was the day I started putting the responsibility on myself to actively play to win.
LIFE IS A GAME
I was late to this thought process in my life in the second stage but I wasn’t late to the concept of gaming. I’ve been a gamer all my life. The game of life has end goal and set timer for when your part in it will be over. I’ve never been afraid of dying or the afterlife.
PURPOSE
That’s what I care about. I’ve always cared about.
“Un intentional life isn’t a life at all” – unknown.
I don’t know who said it. It’s the thought or idea of living without a sense of intention was the thought or feeling that I was afraid. Not living to be engaged in what I am doing while I’m awake.
I have to have a goal. We all have to have a direction for the course we’re on in life. It’s what makes life’s moments mean something. Purpose and intention.
I reflect on this from time to time. I remind myself with books, videos and art, philosophy to remind myself. I need… to
FOCUS ON THE WIN
I’m not trying to do a lot. I’m trying to focus on my attention on the win and reasons for why I do what I do. That’s the mindset I have. I WANT TO WIN AND I’M GOING TO WIN.
No matter what trials or difficulties I have in life. I am going to rise up to the top and win. I have coasted through my life in the past but one thing was always the same. Whether they be challenges or challengers to my own process nothing has ever stopped me from doing what I got a focus or determination to do and I encourage anyone around with the same message….
Don’t quit. PLAY TO WIN.
I leave you with this video below. It is a favorite moment in a great Chinese epic drama. One man against the forces of nature and a QUEEN BITCH OF THE EAST that want to see him fail and die against a challenge for his life.
