We are who we are from the series of choices we make to the outlook we choose to have in life and the gifts and talents we are innately born with.
Aggression. Can be a powerful tool in your life to help push you to your limits and others to do and become their best version. It can also be a force of destruction in your life and on others. It’s your choice.
There is nothing wrong with being aggressive if it is your nature. You have to choose how you use your nature in your life, form yourself, or destroy yourself. Know yourself and use your nature to craft your own path and craft your body and mind to your advantage in life. Whether in business, you can use aggression to pursue the deal or the big sale or martial arts and boxing to push yourself and skill for next round or big overall win.
Meditation:
This is who I am. I accept my nature. I will use it to my advantage. I will use it, push myself forward, and create harmony with me and for the benefit of the people I love.
Habits and daily rituals. We all have these two elements working in our lives. These two factors are the two strongest forces that are programmed into us as children. We become adults, and we begin to program them into our lives automatically without thinking.
Addiction. Is the habit and daily ritual we programmed into our lives. How do you break that programming. It’s not easy, but it is possible.
Vision. You have to have a vision or programming you wish to have in your life. You have to install that vision into a plan, and then you have to execute that plan with brutal blunt determination.
This is the vision that I want for my life. I will program my life and my mind to make that vision my daily habits and daily rituals of my life. That means any other programming must be canceled so that I get the vision I want. That means you have to lose something to gain something else of value to your vision. Choose the vision you want for your life.
When I started in my pursuit of life coaching or really applied positive psychology. It’s the the foundational notion that you yourself can take control over your life and decide your own outcomes and success. For some yes, this notion it comes easy. It’s a switch that comes on in their head and idea forms in to a strong enough idea that forms a singe sentence.
Fuck this shit I’m going to change do something with my life because I done thinking like this.
It seems simple enough. But, I wasn’t taught the shit in school. It’s something I had to learn the slow way.
It’s the process of taking control of your mind and self and not just letting your thoughts run rough shot on you. You command your thoughts. You acknowledge this one thing.
You are not your thoughts. You are the thinker of your thoughts.
Thoughts have a wild way of forming into actions and bad habits if you don’t check them at the door with active control to become the driver of your thoughts and controller of your mind.
Thoughts:
Depression. Panic attacks. Resentful. Self doubt and self pity.
These are not only feelings. They can be thoughts or illusions to make you think in a certain way if your not active in your control of your mind.
I’ve known who I was when I was 16 years old. I spent the rest of the time either fighting it or pretending I didn’t know for some psychological bullshit reason.
I believe half the reason most young dudes don’t know supposedly is because they’re ignoring how they behave and what they say out their own mouth.
I was the same way.
Don’t get me wrong. Life and situations change us in ways and shine a light on some shit we do that makes us change either to adjust to reality or survive. Programming is a real thing. The Public school system is a testimony to that shit. Your programmed to behave in away.
But, at some point you are what the fuck you are and if your not a uncontrollable fucking liar then you know and your turning your eyes away from it because….
When I was kid I was obsessed with reading,writing and video games. I had general beliefs about life and mortality.
The one thing I didn’t have was a direction or reason to work on a career. My focus was becoming a better writer.
Do I regret that?
No. I achieved my goal but I wished that I had had the experience of working a day job and starting a business on the side.
Business and Career.
I missed the bus on experiencing that shit in my 20s and early 30s though I had part time jobs here and there. I missed the grind of earning skills in that short time span of my life.
Starting a business late in life is tougher. You have to fail sooner and figure it out as you go along. Not much time for anything else or energy.
Obession and addiction is the name of the game. There is no such thing is a casual successful GM chess player. It’s all a game of failing hundreds of times to succeeding in the overall goal.
To be the best.
To compete at the highest level.
To analyze how and why you lost.
To win.
You adjust and succeed.
It’s the nature of people who can be ordinary because they’re obsession is real.
Where does the money come in? It’s by product of the chase or Obession for the win for the understanding of how to see every possible outcome.
The chief thing you have to lose is the focus on losing. You will lose a game but you don’t want lose the Obession for looking for the win. Planning for win. Setting up yourself for win.
I’ve been a entrepreneur seriously for the last five years with various projects and gigs all encorporated in one ball of the one person business model. Mainly, I’m a creator that has produced intellectual property with a side in services.
What’s it like?
Your always working and you never really have a down time because the game is always on and there is no pause button and I’ve failed more times then I can count at the game of business but I’m hard headed and I can’t seem to quit. Especially not now I’m beginning to see signs of success. Small steps.
I was never good at video games growing up but I learned later in life to embrace failure. On certain types of games failure is apart of the game. You learn from every play-through and game over experience. You learn to analyze your mistakes and record and remember your success rate. Eventually you’ll beat the game because the more failures you rack up the more experiences you can learn from and not make again.
I slipped into the one person business model simply because I like creating stuff and my main talents lean toward communications, observations and analysis.
It’s been a difficult game to learn but I’ve come away with some lessons learned.
If it works keep doing and perfect it over time.
If it doesn’t work figure out if it’s worth the time and if you can perfect it but keep doing what works on the side.
Quality matters and critical advice good or bad is information to analyze.
I speak of craft in the meaning of a trade that your obsessed with perfecting that has a benefit of a exchange of resources or money or something of value.
Art is a subjective value. Craft has a defining or definitive value a needed valuable service or produced goods.
Some times passion or art can lead to an exchange of value. What is the leading factor for passion to be turned into high value exchange?
The fuck I know.
Maybe blind luck? You never know for sure because again passion or art is subjective value or if you can brain wash people into being addicted to a certain art or medium then you can have instant value because of the dopinmine effect.
I’m NOT interested in being a poor artist that is obsessed with the art and potential for equal exchange for value. I have a craft that has earned me money on a consistent range for me to Allocate time to the mastering of it and growth in the value it gives others and can gain from it.
Fiction writing ain’t it. So why do it? For the fans of course. For people that say they like my shit or find a value in it and mainly for my own entertainment and for someone to steal elements for their own creations.
I am a realist. I’m not the best writer/blogger. It is what it is. I have a voice and a interest in entertaining others and myself. That’s the artist side me.
The craftsman or tradesman side of me is all about getting proof that what I’m doing holds value enough for people to pay for it. I got to pay bills and I got to position myself for now and my future self.
Conclusion: I would rather be great at my craft and entertaining enough for a like for my art.
Welcome to cyberpunk 2024. If you don’t have at least two streams of income your dead or a house wife living in on the income of some dude with five. Her main job is taking baths pretending she’s reading a book for an hour.
I don’t know nobody in my immediate or the outer wall of my reality that doesn’t have at least two or five gigs or businesses going. I had a to think about this shit regarding my own income streams and realize that I had going at least five income streams going and only one of them is on autopilot and generating me cash consently.
Why though? Why is every normal joe getting multiple incomes?
The fucking worth of a dollar is going to shit every fucking second my dude. People used to say that the dollar isn’t worth the paper it’s printed on. Fuck I can’t remember the last time I had the shit in my walllet. I went all digital before the powers hit my wallet C unit 9 from 2020-2022.
I had thought that I needed to add one more Income stream but fucking hell I realized I had to many going already that I needed to manage better.
Listen. No bullshit. This is the shit the financial wizards don’t tell you about. Getting the shit going is the easy part. Managing more then two streams is the hard part and none of them generate at the same rates of return on my initial investment. When one income goes up during one season two flatline and another gets a bump during a odd week in the middle of the month. Alright let’s get to the sauce. The moneytalk
There are twenty-four hours in a day. Sleeping takes up most of it and the fucking market doesn’t open until 9.a.m only during the week baring a fucking holiday nobody gives a fuck about. Map out what you can get done by the hours you have left in a day.
The calendar is your biggest tool in your financial career. Use it wisely. Fuck Valentines Day.
In North America. The United States currently. Every American of the Republic Empire is a fucking business. You don’t have to start a business the day you were born in America, a business in America was started the day you were born. So mind your own damned business and make it profitable. No. I’m not talking about a mindset. You are a fucking business. I’m dead ass. Fuck it. Even world wide. People get it. Samsung. Sony. Toyota. Trump.
In conclusion
A. Mind your own damn business. B. Protect and invest in your own damn brand.
Whether your writing a novel for the month of November I.E. Nanowrimo the writer’s month or would like to know the process I’m going to give it to you short sweet and to the point.
Details. 50k words in one month. That’s 1,667 words in a day or more. Yes, it can be done. I got it done and it was a fucking rush getting it done finishing in the end.
Start with what you know and what subject or genre of fiction you’ve read you know the structure of how it goes. Once you got an idea of what your writing is….start writing. Don’t plan out anything more start writing.
Get a writing schedule for each day and time of writing. Keep to the schedule. Keep writing. Don’t give up just keep going until you’ve finished it. There are 24 hours in a day. All you need is 1 to 2 hours or 40 minutes a day. You can get it done. Keep going. Keep writing. Keep pushing.
Yesterday you did 1,889 words today shoot for 3k in under two hours. Use your writing app and notes to keep track of your structure and story but and some days something fucked up is going to happen to throw you off.
Fuck it. Write 4k words to make up for the days something happen to throw you off. But, I’m not saying anything you don’t know. You were a beginner once. You kept with it. Your writing kept getting more and more easier.
Strange times we’re headed into again I’m reminded of the 2021. The clock goes back in my head. A time I actively chose to live each day like I’m here. I’m alive and I’m here for the smoke, the conflict and the comedy.
Life. The good, The bad and The in between moments we’re all embarrassed that five year old child called us on our bullshit. Life is worth living. Even in those moments life appears to have not a damn meaning at all. Life is worth living to achieve what you value the most to do. What value the most to put your heart into.
Why?!
Because I said so.
I believe so.
Because that’s the secret. We all keep going on this road because the sets of beliefs and philosophy handed down to us and the gems we find along the way that keeps moving. Anybody that says otherwise is can go fuck him, her and itself back to the shit hole they came out of. I don’t want to hear it. I fight against anything that drags me down and away from the belief I hold while I’m living on this spinning mud ball of a crazy, beautiful world.
