How to challenge a aggression nature

We are who we are from the series of choices we make to the outlook we choose to have in life and the gifts and talents we are innately born with.

Aggression. Can be a powerful tool in your life to help push you to your limits and others to do and become their best version. It can also be a force of destruction in your life and on others. It’s your choice.

There is nothing wrong with being aggressive if it is your nature. You have to choose how you use your nature in your life, form yourself, or destroy yourself. Know yourself and use your nature to craft your own path and craft your body and mind to your advantage in life. Whether in business, you can use aggression to pursue the deal or the big sale or martial arts and boxing to push yourself and skill for next round or big overall win.

This is who I am. I accept my nature. I will use it to my advantage. I will use it, push myself forward, and create harmony with me and for the benefit of the people I love.

The Tools of Life Coaching…mindset

When I started in my pursuit of life coaching or really applied positive psychology. It’s the the foundational notion that you yourself can take control over your life and decide your own outcomes and success. For some yes, this notion it comes easy. It’s a switch that comes on in their head and idea forms in to a strong enough idea that forms a singe sentence.

Fuck this shit I’m going to change do something with my life because I done thinking like this.

It seems simple enough. But, I wasn’t taught the shit in school. It’s something I had to learn the slow way.

It’s the process of taking control of your mind and self and not just letting your thoughts run rough shot on you. You command your thoughts. You acknowledge this one thing.

You are not your thoughts. You are the thinker of your thoughts.

Thoughts have a wild way of forming into actions and bad habits if you don’t check them at the door with active control to become the driver of your thoughts and controller of your mind.

Thoughts:

Depression. Panic attacks. Resentful. Self doubt and self pity.

These are not only feelings. They can be thoughts or illusions to make you think in a certain way if your not active in your control of your mind.

Monetizing Your life

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I’ve been a entrepreneur seriously for the last five years with various projects and gigs all encorporated in one ball of the one person business model. Mainly, I’m a creator that has produced intellectual property with a side in services.

What’s it like?

Your always working and you never really have a down time because the game is always on and there is no pause button and I’ve failed more times then I can count at the game of business but I’m hard headed and I can’t seem to quit. Especially not now I’m beginning to see signs of success. Small steps.

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I was never good at video games growing up but I learned later in life to embrace failure. On certain types of games failure is apart of the game. You learn from every play-through and game over experience. You learn to analyze your mistakes and record and remember your success rate. Eventually you’ll beat the game because the more failures you rack up the more experiences you can learn from and not make again.

I slipped into the one person business model simply because I like creating stuff and my main talents lean toward communications, observations and analysis.

It’s been a difficult game to learn but I’ve come away with some lessons learned.

  1. If it works keep doing and perfect it over time.
  2. If it doesn’t work figure out if it’s worth the time and if you can perfect it but keep doing what works on the side.
  3. Quality matters and critical advice good or bad is information to analyze.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

MoneyTalk: The Management of income streams

Welcome to cyberpunk 2024. If you don’t have at least two streams of income your dead or a house wife living in on the income of some dude with five. Her main job is taking baths pretending she’s reading a book for an hour.

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I don’t know nobody in my immediate or the outer wall of my reality that doesn’t have at least two or five gigs or businesses going. I had a to think about this shit regarding my own income streams and realize that I had going at least five income streams going and only one of them is on autopilot and generating me cash consently.

Why though? Why is every normal joe getting multiple incomes?

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The fucking worth of a dollar is going to shit every fucking second my dude. People used to say that the dollar isn’t worth the paper it’s printed on. Fuck I can’t remember the last time I had the shit in my walllet. I went all digital before the powers hit my wallet C unit 9 from 2020-2022.

I had thought that I needed to add one more Income stream but fucking hell I realized I had to many going already that I needed to manage better.

Listen. No bullshit. This is the shit the financial wizards don’t tell you about. Getting the shit going is the easy part. Managing more then two streams is the hard part and none of them generate at the same rates of return on my initial investment. When one income goes up during one season two flatline and another gets a bump during a odd week in the middle of the month. Alright let’s get to the sauce. The moneytalk

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How do you manage multiple streams of income?

  1. There are twenty-four hours in a day. Sleeping takes up most of it and the fucking market doesn’t open until 9.a.m only during the week baring a fucking holiday nobody gives a fuck about. Map out what you can get done by the hours you have left in a day.
  2. The calendar is your biggest tool in your financial career. Use it wisely. Fuck Valentines Day.
  3. In North America. The United States currently. Every American of the Republic Empire is a fucking business. You don’t have to start a business the day you were born in America, a business in America was started the day you were born. So mind your own damned business and make it profitable. No. I’m not talking about a mindset. You are a fucking business. I’m dead ass. Fuck it. Even world wide. People get it. Samsung. Sony. Toyota. Trump.

In conclusion

A. Mind your own damn business. B. Protect and invest in your own damn brand.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

How to write a novel in a month….Nanowrimo

Alright let’s get right to it.

Whether your writing a novel for the month of November I.E. Nanowrimo the writer’s month or would like to know the process I’m going to give it to you short sweet and to the point.

Details. 50k words in one month. That’s 1,667 words in a day or more. Yes, it can be done. I got it done and it was a fucking rush getting it done finishing in the end.

Beginner level

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Start with what you know and what subject or genre of fiction you’ve read you know the structure of how it goes. Once you got an idea of what your writing is….start writing. Don’t plan out anything more start writing.

Get a writing schedule for each day and time of writing. Keep to the schedule. Keep writing. Don’t give up just keep going until you’ve finished it. There are 24 hours in a day. All you need is 1 to 2 hours or 40 minutes a day. You can get it done. Keep going. Keep writing. Keep pushing.

immediate

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Get yourself a good writing app that counts your words and have a set number of words you want to do that day and keep to it.

Fill in the holes in your beginning, middle and end to fill out your story or the thesis of your book. Keep writing and going. Keep to your schedule.

Master

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Yesterday you did 1,889 words today shoot for 3k in under two hours. Use your writing app and notes to keep track of your structure and story but and some days something fucked up is going to happen to throw you off.

Fuck it. Write 4k words to make up for the days something happen to throw you off. But, I’m not saying anything you don’t know. You were a beginner once. You kept with it. Your writing kept getting more and more easier.

Warm Regards

GuardianDogg

Life Coaching 101: Behavior patterns.

In simple terms: Your behavior or the activities you do mirror back who you are and a pattern for how you think. Some behaviors patterns can be changed others are fixed. The deciding factor is you.

Examples:

Loud corny behavior

This beta bitch behavior pattern is seen in the leather, the fedora and the words that vibrate with arrogence, self importance and self delusion. He really does think people give a shit about I’m a cool asshole delusion. All he is a fucking beta bitch sniffing on his shitty philosophy or masturbating to his own intelligence. Is this fixable?! Maybe. He just has to have a come to Jesus moment where he realizes nobody gives a fuck what he thinks.

Extrovert behavior

Some dudes don’t give a fuck. Other men choose what to give a fuck about and damn everything else.  Confidence is knowing who you are and not giving a fuck if nobody else cares about it because they don’t. This is behavior that is expressed outwardly from inward self knowledge. Learned behavior.

Burn it all down behavior

Dreams for the moment someone will step on his shoe.

The quiet one.

At peace in his own world. Confident in his own skin. In the flow state my dude.

Habits breed behaviors and personality patterns mirror self indentity. Learn your strengths check your habits and limit your own bullshit from getting in the way of you winning in life.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

Life Coaching 101: Realistic view of destiny

What is destiny?

How do you define it when it means so many different things to different types people.

But really can you picture it in your mind? If you can what does it look like?

Can destiny be objective rather then subjective?

I think of destiny (objectively) like a carpenter with a hammer and nails used to build a damn house to live in or a build a table to put food on.

Destiny is what you do from here to the grave. It’s a means to building a life. There is a profession and there is a purpose and meaning for things you do to achieve meaningful goals to you.

Or

It can be boring 9 to 5 for the rest of your life to pay for your apartment and family.

It’s choices. You have a choice or choices on what you will do with your natural and learned skills. What you will do and can do will end up being your destiny.

A subjective destiny to me is working at McDonald’s. You have dreams of making it big on YouTube with 9 subscribers no niche with a dream of retiring at thirty and spending the rest of your life banging hockers and riding motorcycles.

There is a possibility for subjective but I ain’t for it.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

It’s to hard!? Stop bitching and get that shit done.

Hold my beer!

No words really describe that feeling you get knowing your complaints are bullshit when your OG that been in the game long to show you, you ain’t shit. Your mouthing off about this ain’t fair, it’s impossible. OG’s just watching then he’s had enough of your shit and shows you what a fucking OG’s super power is experience, practice and fucking balls.

OG don’t say shit. His answer is to get that shit done like he’s done a hundred times before.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

What does it mean to win?

In life. In career. In relationships and in general what does it mean to win? To be in the pursuit of winning in the game of life.

Yes. Life is a game. Yes. You can lose. But, what’s worse in life is purposefully losing. Getting in your own way or just not giving a fuck to pursue a prize you fixed your mind to.

Does it matter? It matters a hell of a lot to me because I know what losing is like and know what winning feels like. Losing and depression go hand in hand. The mindset behind “does it matter if I try?” Does it matter if I push myself a little harder give it everything I have is some bullshit.

“IT DOESN’T MATTER IF YOU WIN BY AN INCH OR A MILE. WINNING IS WINNING.’
@FASTFAMILY
DOMINIC TORETTO

Do you know who losing matters most too? Your enemies with friendly masks and your internal doubts that spring up to get in the way of your rise and progress forward. Life is competitive and there is always a given moment your in the mud wrestling your way for a winning pin against another foe.

So fuck not trying. Fuck self doubts. Fuck depression and fuck anybody that gets in my way of the pursuit of the win. The opposition is real in life. I am not surprised when people attempt to get in my way. I am annoyed when events happen to block me but I am not surprised nor am I backing up.

I am pushing through and when I can I’ll enjoy the ride along the way. I will sleep win I am dead. I’m alive now so the struggle is on but am not to deterred because I’m on the move.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

Tales of my depression of late and other events….

The worst periods were from 2020-2022. Now the U.S. is having a secret war with Russia everyone knows about but I’m managing pretty good. Again, my humor is growing darker by the day.

I still have my flashes of haunting memories about my mother’s death and my past failures and difficulties in other family areas but I can breath better now. My daily work days easier because of the thought that I really don’t have the time nor do I want to spare any for the shit.

What’s changed? I’m taking control of my time.

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My days are a lot more ordered to a daily schedule. All intentional. I ended 2022 in the month of December by rescheduling my day work, my writing and my entertainment. Everyday I am squeezing in what I can. To maximize my time to achieve current goals for Present and the future.

I also included time to start two business and to study philosophy and time for my spiritual growth.

I’m in my sixth month of 2023 and I’m noticing changes in my mood and my perception of time. 24h hours. It doesn’t seem like a short time span when your younger and in school or wasting away. But,, I’ve learned twenty-four hours is a short span of time.. I’ve had to automatic a few tasks and make an analysis on the cost of what I spend my time on and how I can off set that cost by reordering my life toward other activities better for my mind and wallet.

My mind is more on the present and future so I spend less energy on less productive time wasting habits. Time is valuable to me. Money I see as a tool to achieve the means of owning every minute and second of my time I have left.

I have a ten year plan now and I can already see current things in life having to be adjusted along the way. I don’t plan on having job in the next twenty years and I for damn sure have to fill that time in my calendar for something else.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

HOW to get SERIOUS MONEY as a TEACHER!

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Fuck the public school system. Fuck all that bullshit about being a professor at some higher learning government funded institution. If you want to get serious money and you know a skill or trade take that shit to the internet and own your shit my dude. This is the Twenty-first century my dude. Being a poor public school teacher is bullshit. It ain’t necessary and it ain’t righteous or good it’s banana balls horse shit.

How do you start? First comes the Marketing vehicles. Otherwise known as social media/word of mouth.

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Tik Tok

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Right now in the year of our Beta Bitch Biden as we speak the government is trying to take the biggest bag away from we the fucking people of the un-united people as a means for teachers and dumbasses to market their skills of teaching Spanish to the Gringos and get paid on the back end with private course and selling merchandise on the back end. Why? Because the fuckers are greedy mother fuckers that want American’s to go to government backed social media shit instead. Will they succeed? I don’t know. I hope not but right now you need to get on the app and take advantage of the timing.

IG

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You know what time it is my dude. Instagram ain’t nothing but a means of people’s attention toward you and then directing those people to your website and off shoot teaching sites to run up the bag. The secret to all social media is. BE INTERESTING, ENTERTAINING and you have em show you fucking tits off with low cut wet T-shirt.

How do you charge customers/students?

Website

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The website is simple a tool to use as hosting your own school. You are the business. You are the school.

YouTube

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You can launch your teaching from this one site and branch right into your website later. It’s a marketing machine. The key is this. Be entertaining and then point your students to your paid instruction shit online and off-line.

Workshops/meet ups/conferences/main events

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Once you’ve gotten your students knowing who you are and charging them for your instruction take it off-line. Give people a real world experience, create a fucking environment for growth and atmosphere that your here to get people learning and advancing it what you teach.

Lastly,

repeat, repeat, repeat and get paid my dude.

Why do it?

To own your shit entirely and not have to be poor fifty years from now on government assistance that ain’t going exist after Beta Biden rises from his crept to takes into goble nuclear dumbass war.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg