Money talk: The Richest man in Babylon

Just finished listening to the book and I have thoughts. I highly recommend the book for ages 10-40. Overall a good book and helpful in teaching basic financial discipline and budget mindset.

I got to this book late and some of the principles I have learned by experience or observations of highly effective productive people.

My favorite chapter is the luckiest man in babylon.

The jest of the book is parables of stories to illustrate how to grow, maintain and advance yourself in wealth.

The takeaways. I have two.

1.”Where the determination is the way can be found.”

It is not enough to desire to have shit or cash. You have to have a determination. A will of Iron that there is no other way but to push forward and defeat or win over the enemy before you. Debt. Procrastination. Lack of Motivation.

Only when you have a determination then can be open to seeing a way or solution to defeating overcoming the challenges of gaining wealth or fearing yourself from slave mindset or en debted slavery.

Every man has to make a determination on what type of man they are. A slave or a free man. What class do you fit in?

2. Luck is found or created when you learn to enjoy working and mastering a skill.

Lady lucky does exist. She just only pays attention to a dude who enjoys putting in long hours into perfecting his craft and getting the bag.

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When you make working your friend lady luck comes looking for you. Opportunities come looking for you and wealth is a by product of a determination to use work as a means to rise a step above the rest.

The principles of wealth are old and simple. It isn’t at a dice roll or at a gambling table. It’s 40 hrs a week at the day job, four hours a day at the side hustle and two hours a day studying your craft and pushing yourself to get to the top so that you can get two weeks at the beach with your girl and not worry about whether or not the bills will get paid.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

Life coaching 101: Listening

In short: Listen to people that know who you are because often times you’ll catch hints of when they’re talking bullshit. Listen to gut, your thoughts and what you want to do.

When your having a conversation about your life, your needs and your desires please listen to yourself when you talk. Your telling on yourself. What motivates you. What heightens your interests and makes you hyper awhere or happy. You already know your just not listening to yourself.

Listen to people that have your best interest at heart. Listen and pay attention to what they’re saying about you. It matters so don’t just listen to respond. Be present and listen for opportunities to grow, learn and consently be on the search to move forward.

If you want to be successful in life listen to someone successful in life.

Conversations in general are golden opportunities for you to mine out relationships and information to help you be successful in the game of life.

Your people, your tribe are real and honest people that don’t want to soft ball you the truth about how you are fucking up your life.

No I’m not joking. People ignore shit easy. People don’t listen when they get up in their feelings and recognize when someone has given them the truth about how it is.

Be a listener. Not a bullshiter.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

It’s to hard!? Stop bitching and get that shit done.

Hold my beer!

No words really describe that feeling you get knowing your complaints are bullshit when your OG that been in the game long to show you, you ain’t shit. Your mouthing off about this ain’t fair, it’s impossible. OG’s just watching then he’s had enough of your shit and shows you what a fucking OG’s super power is experience, practice and fucking balls.

OG don’t say shit. His answer is to get that shit done like he’s done a hundred times before.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

Unwinnable wars: The Russian vs Ukraine (New World Order edition)

Let’s really recap this shit show.

It’s been 9 years in the ongoing conflict in total. Two fucking years sense shit went hot and the Swedish government after 200 years of staying the fuck out of goble dumbass wars decided to through their fucking hat in to the mix of current unwinnable wars against Russia. Automatically dropping their bag and fucking up their position.

The leader in the secret war against Russia is a ancient old dirty bastard democratic gangster. This is the face of the greatest military mind and social justice leader of the enslaved 1st world empires. This is the fucking king that the fucking empiral United States of America elected.

I stopped giving a fuck in part for nine months because I got shit to do. We’re in a recession but but we’re not in a recession but we’re in a recession. Nobody collectively can confirm or agree on a reality anymore let alone why the fuck I should care about a war that’s lasted way to fucking long to end without some major fuck up on the new world order front. CNN, FOXNEWS and Jim Bob at the corner liquor still all agree that the Ukraine is winning and Russia is the greatest evil on the face of this God forsaken world.

This the era of clown world reality.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

Life Coaching 101: Intro “What the hell is life coaching?”

In short: positive psychology/philosophy and behavioral science mixed with tools to get you into (being) and (doing) and (having) what the fuck you want. Life Coaching is a progressive plan of execution to win.

The benefits of coaching are more into the training and tools that can be used to utilize in helping yourself achieve your goals. That’s the end result. How can you achieve succeeding in your goal and winning in life.

The formal answer: Be accountable to yourself and the decisions you make. Engineer your life concisely. Play for the win in life.

The informal answer: Stop fucking around and start setting your life in order to do what you know you want to do. Be honest with yourself.. what fucking excuses are you giving yourself because your either afraid or to lazy to plan and execute your own success?

What’s the big confusion?

Well…there is no real confusion only grifters and bullshit artists trying to put the game on you for some…

Or some…

And no results. No forward progress. No plan of execution, no plan for success to win in the game. When your dealing with a non professional.

The mindset: The game of life is a long one, winning is the objective. Whatever goal your set on achieving it is through your own fault or effort that help you succeed for the win or fail.

You are the engineer of your own life. You understand and design it in a way to go where you want it. You can go along with the social society engineering or take control and concisely decide for yourself what the ride is going to be like. We already know the ending.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

What does it mean to win?

In life. In career. In relationships and in general what does it mean to win? To be in the pursuit of winning in the game of life.

Yes. Life is a game. Yes. You can lose. But, what’s worse in life is purposefully losing. Getting in your own way or just not giving a fuck to pursue a prize you fixed your mind to.

Does it matter? It matters a hell of a lot to me because I know what losing is like and know what winning feels like. Losing and depression go hand in hand. The mindset behind “does it matter if I try?” Does it matter if I push myself a little harder give it everything I have is some bullshit.

“IT DOESN’T MATTER IF YOU WIN BY AN INCH OR A MILE. WINNING IS WINNING.’
@FASTFAMILY
DOMINIC TORETTO

Do you know who losing matters most too? Your enemies with friendly masks and your internal doubts that spring up to get in the way of your rise and progress forward. Life is competitive and there is always a given moment your in the mud wrestling your way for a winning pin against another foe.

So fuck not trying. Fuck self doubts. Fuck depression and fuck anybody that gets in my way of the pursuit of the win. The opposition is real in life. I am not surprised when people attempt to get in my way. I am annoyed when events happen to block me but I am not surprised nor am I backing up.

I am pushing through and when I can I’ll enjoy the ride along the way. I will sleep win I am dead. I’m alive now so the struggle is on but am not to deterred because I’m on the move.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

My Modern gaming hobby vs my writing obsession

I’ve been a gamer for most of my life. I’ve had off and on times I wanted to quit simple because of a host of reasons. Mainly being modern gaming has got a lot of shit that comes with it.

It’s the costs, advantages and disadvantages. Modern gaming in general costs rise above at times more then I’m willing to pay. I got more cash stacked then I ever had in my life but it’s just not fun to me with the over inflation of supposed value in gaming in general.

I don’t have a passion for it like most dudes. I only got nostalgic memories and minor willness to only go so far for a hand full of games.  One game in particular I bought a whole gaming system for.

This game made the switch worth buying all the extra games before tears of the Kingdom dropped. Well…and Tetris. I love the fuck out of that game. Even so now a days I can’t take a lot of my time to put into the shit. It’s a hobby. Writing however is a different beast of desire. It’s pure spare time entertainment for me.

I’ve made some cash from writing here and there. Off and on but the value of writing and reading to me is really a obsession. I can’t think of it as hobby. I’ve put more energy, time and sweat into the shit and I always get returns.

I always feel a sense of accomplishment and growth. The science and art of writing and craft is something I’ve taken the time to invest in and appreciate.

Above all else. This shit is work.

I wouldn’t do this shit if I didn’t have an obsession for it and need to succeed and be great at the craft. The only over people can understand that level of obsession and need to understand and study the process and game of it are GM chess players.

I find GM and IM chess players and how they think and process and make decisions to be the most interesting. Though I can’t play the game I admire the thinking because for me I like’n it to the process of telling and crafting a story and logical flow of a story and I have the same obsession for my game.

The game of crafting the story.

Yeah. I can do without gaming in general because I still have memories with my best friends and gaming but my writing obsession invades my thoughts consently. I live for bursts of growth were the worlds I create are due to the work I put in years in the process of crawling my to the top.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

The Struggle for manhood

It’s a learning process of transforming yourself and taking hold of a burden of responsibility and accountability for your actions or the actions of others. It’s a clean up job when somebody else has fucked the pouch a man in his manhood has to come along and clean up the fucking shit.

Adulthood vs manhood

Adulthood

Adulthood is doing what your suppose to do for yourself and you don’t get a medal for it because your only doing what your supposed to do. Paying your bills. Taking care of yourself. Showing up on time for your job. It is your reasonable service to yourself and society. Being an adult has got nothing to do with being a man or a woman. It is simple doing what is only reasonable to ask of an adult.

Manhood

Manhood. It isn’t for the weak. It’s doing shit that you don’t want to do, you may not have to do but you do it because your the only one available to do it. Nobody gives a fuck that you did the job even when they asked or begged you to do it. They just knew you were the one to do it. It’s a thankless job. It isn’t a reasonable service. It’s a job only a Godsdamn man would do because the shit got to get done and he’s the huckleberry for any mother fucker asking for a volunteer.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

Thoughts on the Legend OF Zelda current flavor…

My thoughts of the legend of Zelda Tears of the Kingdom. First impressions: Awesome sauce.

I’m over 85 hours plus into the shit and I ain’t done finishing this awesome piece gaming. It was well worth the wait and I couldn’t manage to get half way into the shit if I haven’t already put in a plan several months and a year and a half to play it.

Everything, everything is in the planning and if I didn’t put as much planning in I wouldn’t have managed to build up my hours.

I’m a big time fan of the series but I got a whole lot of planning and recent shit dropping into my life. I need the side fun to enjoy my small space of fun in between achievements I want to do in my life and road blocks I want to knock out of the way.

It also works into my mental health. To have a small space to enjoy simple gaming with a discent enough story I saw several hours before I got into the meat of the story. But, for I find myself caring a little just so I can better figure out how and where to get the damn Master sword.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

Gum Gum berry Jin & juice

This shit has been on my damn mind for a week now…..the fucking gummi bears theme song to that fucking show.

Maybe it’s old age. Maybe it’s my black sense of humor as look back on the 90s with a side eye. I wonder. What the fuck was in that chocolate milk I drank on Saturday mornings.

This shit is way back in the day before the devil mouse bought Star Wars and the descent in to fucking madness with the abominations of Indiana Jones 2020s horse shit movies…

One question invades my mind daily. How the fuck did they get away with a cartoon about a bunch of fucking bears in the woods getting drunk on some berry jin and juice.

Fucking bouncing here and there and getting turned up enough to start bouncing on their asses to evade black people Orcs trying to get the secrets to the juice.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg

Tales of my depression of late and other events….

The worst periods were from 2020-2022. Now the U.S. is having a secret war with Russia everyone knows about but I’m managing pretty good. Again, my humor is growing darker by the day.

I still have my flashes of haunting memories about my mother’s death and my past failures and difficulties in other family areas but I can breath better now. My daily work days easier because of the thought that I really don’t have the time nor do I want to spare any for the shit.

What’s changed? I’m taking control of my time.

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My days are a lot more ordered to a daily schedule. All intentional. I ended 2022 in the month of December by rescheduling my day work, my writing and my entertainment. Everyday I am squeezing in what I can. To maximize my time to achieve current goals for Present and the future.

I also included time to start two business and to study philosophy and time for my spiritual growth.

I’m in my sixth month of 2023 and I’m noticing changes in my mood and my perception of time. 24h hours. It doesn’t seem like a short time span when your younger and in school or wasting away. But,, I’ve learned twenty-four hours is a short span of time.. I’ve had to automatic a few tasks and make an analysis on the cost of what I spend my time on and how I can off set that cost by reordering my life toward other activities better for my mind and wallet.

My mind is more on the present and future so I spend less energy on less productive time wasting habits. Time is valuable to me. Money I see as a tool to achieve the means of owning every minute and second of my time I have left.

I have a ten year plan now and I can already see current things in life having to be adjusted along the way. I don’t plan on having job in the next twenty years and I for damn sure have to fill that time in my calendar for something else.

Warm Regards

Guardiandogg